I understand that, and accept that. Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views. MedPulse News App Stay on top of breaking news in your specialty and across medicine. It's not a gender issue or money issue. Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. We just moved in together and I am very afraid of his ocd ways and heavy opinions. If you like your regular fix of alcohol or nicotine, then dating a Mormon probably isn't a good idea. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. He will always downplay it. People should marry for love, not money.
You just can't imagine the heap o' hurt you're potentially setting yourself up for. Dress nicely, as the girl will appreciate the effort put into looking good for her, and encourage her to do the same. She is passionate about it.
If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. Oh this is a great set of questions. I've been married to a cardiologist for 30 years.
That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here. Although it may indeed be a good idea to get out of this one, we all need to keep in mind that the situation is more complex than that. That is her ultimate goal when it comes to dating and choosing potential mates. If you do end up having sexual relations, she will feel guilty, and it will affect your relationship, you can count on that. She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. And as many posters stated, it is something that needs to be seriously discussed with your potential partner. If we have children, they will be OK to go to your church, but not compelled to do so, and never baptized.